Your vagina is
capable of a lot of things, including lifting weights. Yup, vaginal
weightlifting is a thing, and it’s growing in popularity thanks to
sex and relationship coach Kim Anami, who started the hashtag #thingsiliftwithmyvagina to bring awareness to the
practice.
Vaginal
weightlifting is a pelvic floor exercise similar to Kegels, where you
lift and squeeze objects in order to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. It
may sound a little “out there,” but as long as you follow the proper
techniques, it’s a safe way to spice up your sex life and improve your health.
Read on to learn
more about the benefits, what to use, how to practice, and more.
What’s
the point?
Vaginal
weightlifting can help you train your pelvic floor
muscles and increase blood flow to your genitals — both of
which can do wonders for your sex life.
Some
of the saucy benefits include:
*enhanced
sexual arousal
*more
internal control during penetration
*more
intense contractions during climax
*a
stronger grip during sex, which could boost your partner’s orgasms
Studies show that
vaginal weightlifting has other health benefits, too. Your pelvic organs are
better supported by stronger pelvic floor muscles, which can help:
*prevent
or treat uterine prolapse
*prevent
leakage and improve your core after childbirth
But
before you take up vaginal weightlifting, talk to your doctor to make sure the
practice is right for you. “[It’s] best to address the root of the problem that
vaginal weightlifting is trying to heal,” says Dr. Janet Brito, a licensed
psychologist and certified sex therapist with the Center for Sexual and
Reproductive Health. Although vaginal weightlifting may help your core concern,
you may also benefit from additional therapies. Your doctor can help you
develop a treatment plan that best suits your needs.
What do you use?
From
cones to jade eggs, there a few different available options when it comes to
weightlifting tools. Once you decide on which one you want to try, you can buy
them from online medical supply stores or retailers like Amazon.
Jade egg
A
jade egg is an oval-shaped stone weight that could fit in the palm of your
hand. You can use the egg as-is, or tie a heavier object to it with a thick
string. Anecdotal reports say using a jade egg can boost your sex life, but the
practice is controversial and not recommended by doctors.
In
fact, Dr. Brito cautions that jade eggs are made from a porous material that
can trap bacteria. Jade eggs are also difficult to clean, allowing trapped
bacteria to build up over time. This may lead to a serious infection, such
as bacterial vaginosis.
“Overall,
there’s no evidence in support of using jade eggs for pelvic floor training,”
she says.
Cones or weights
The
two most commonly used objects for vaginal weightlifting are:
Cones. These
weighted tampon-sized objects are usually made of plastic-coated stainless
steel.
Kegel exercise
weights. These
weights are typically made of medical-grade silicone and come in different
shapes, such as teardrops or spheres.
Most
cones or weights come in a group of six, ranging from 20 grams to 100 grams in
size. But before you purchase a set, Dr. Brito suggests meeting with a pelvic
floor therapist. They can help you determine whether this approach is right for
you, as well as what size you should start with.
Specially-made
sex toys
There
aren’t any specially-made toys on the market for vaginal weightlifting — but
that doesn’t mean ordinary objects can be used in the practice.
Anami
has lifted everything from figurines and trophies to mangos and dragon fruit,
often tied to a stone or egg held in her vagina. But if you’re new to vaginal
weightlifting, you probably shouldn’t lift that bucket of apples just yet. Your
doctor or a pelvic floor therapist can advise you on when you can safely
increase your weight.
If
you want to start vaginal weightlifting, it’s important to know and practice
the right techniques. Here are a few things to keep in mind before you begin.
Preparation
Before
you start lifting, wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water. You should
also make sure your weightlifting tool is clean — if not, wash that, too, using
soap and water.
Run
it under the tap to make sure all the soap residue is off.
You
should start with the lightest weight and gradually progress to a heavier size
over time.
Insertion
Apply
a small amount of silicone-free lube on
your weight so you can insert it safely. You can put in the weight the same way
you would a tampon. Or, if you’re not a tampon user, you can lie on your back
with one leg lifted.
The
string on the object should still hang outside of your vagina after you’ve
inserted it. If it’s not, you pushed the tool up too far. Simply relax your
muscles to pull the weight out and readjust until it’s in the correct position.
Once
it’s properly inserted, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles to hold the weight in
place.
Practice
Start
by doing 3 sets of 12 repetitions, 2 times a day, about 3 times a week. To do
this, lift and squeeze the weight for 5 seconds, then relax for another 5
seconds. You can do this lying on your side or while standing up.
Contraction
and relaxation should last no longer than 5 seconds, otherwise it may cause
pelvic problems.
“Pelvic
floor muscles aren’t meant to contract continuously, but meant to respond to
different situations,” Brito tells Healthline. “To keep it contracted for long
periods of time could more than likely contribute to pelvic floor dysfunction.”
You
can gradually increase weight size as you move along in your practice. After
about two months, try adding an exercise to your routine to help build
strength. While holding the weight in your vagina, do some squats or walk up
and down the stairs.
Removal and
aftercare
You
should be able to pull out the weight by slowly tugging on the string until it
slips out. If you can’t find the string, don’t worry! Think of the weight as a
tampon: It probably got pushed up deeper into your vagina, which means you’ll
have to do a dig with your finger to find it. Once you do, gently grab the
string, pull, and remove.
You
can also remove vaginal weights the same way you inserted them. Once your
weight is out, wash it thoroughly with soap and warm water. Keep in mind,
though, that some products will have specific aftercare instructions, so make
sure to follow those steps provided.
Are there any risks?
As
with any exercise, vaginal weightlifting does come with some potential risks,
including:
Overexertion,
tearing, pain and discomfort
The
easiest way to avoid these risks is to make sure you’re using the correct exercise
technique and the right size weights. Dr. Brito suggests asking your doctor for
more guidance on best practices for you and your body.
You
may also want to avoid vaginal weightlifting all together if you:
*are
pregnant or recovering from childbirth
*have
pelvic pain or an active pelvic infection
*are
recovering from gynecological surgery
You’re
more likely to hurt yourself if you use vaginal weights during any of these
situations. If you still want to try vaginal weightlifting, check with your
doctor first.
The
bottom line
There’s
no doubt that vaginal weightlifting has some benefit to your health. It could
improve your sex life, as well as prevent any unwanted leakage.
But
vaginal weightlifting isn’t for everyone, so make sure you consult your doctor before strapping a surfboard to your Kegel balls. Knowing the
right techniques and what your body can handle will help prevent pain and
discomfort.
@healthline
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